Marriage is not by force and no one is suppose to
order you into a marriage you don't like but then,
why are some women desparate for a man at the
age of 35? What happened to their 25 years of
being single? No men, rejected rings or did they
chose to remain single caring less about what
"society" would say?
The typical urban lady has career as a priority
second to her family. In fact she wants to make a
living, loving what she has passion for all to take
care of her family. So, where does a man fit in?
After the university, women want jobs and others think of
marriage and babies. Some make their dreams come true
while others struggle to get to one goal. Whether we like it
or not, time goes by and some of these plans haven't been
put to work and they start getting nervous... just like any
one would.
The ladies start to re-think about their future when they hit
25 - 30. What's top priority: marriage or work? When the
men stop to come as frequently as they used to, it then
boils down to how to make themselves available for the
men? But they are so engrossed in their careers and pride
that they tell themselves, "Man or no man, a woman has to
make a life worthy of any body" . Sounds stupid but there's
truth in it!
Women turn to give up on their struggle to get married
when pride and money takes the lead. After several harsh
break ups and too much pride and class qualification, ladies
find marriage as something not forced or a must. Thats
when they are heard saying "which part in the Bible says
'Women MUST get married?"
A career woman is as busy as a mother of two (married or
not). She thinks of a career upgrade , a better pay-check, a
relationship with a boss-like man and nothing less. She
begins to set standards for herself -- sometimes too high
for her to be noticed by the rugarly guys. But is she also to
settle for less?
Some women decide to go for just flings (asual sex with
guys with no commitments) and it works like magic untill
those same free guys decide to propose to their own
girlfriends.
Others go for the already taken men just because they think
its less stressfull. But when the thought of them leaving
their wives and children hits, women with conciences back
down in fear to be caused by the wives, who are usually
predicted to be too prayerful.
Time is flying faster now....
So, when flings and married men affairs start to fade,
where do these women go to or what do they want again in
life? Marriage and desperately too! But are there still single,
high standard men to marry them? The probability is slim...
almost 1-0.
Awomanat 35 and above is now single and ready to mingle
with - perhaps - any available man left for her! No more
standards... she just wants a man!
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